21 Romantic Movies for Lovers Who Love Love
Reading Time: 7 minutesThese movies celebrate love for lovers who love Valentine’s Day.
It’s become fashionable to hate on Valentine’s Day, and I get it—the commercialization; the unreasonable expectations; the bland packaging of the whole thing. But, just as importantly, it’s also OK to love love. It’s OK to look forward to Valentine’s Day, whether because you’ve found your own storybook romance (of whatever variety), or because you enjoy watching other people navigate the many possible relationship complications. These movies all celebrate love, with many shades from dark to outright comedic—because when the expectations of V-Day start to feel overwhelming, sometimes just throwing on a movie is more than enough.
Note: While generally avoiding specific spoilers, there’s no getting around the fact that these are all movies that end well for their main characters, if not perfectly. You might even describe them as having happy endings.
Until relatively recently, gay romances (even many of the comedies) with happy endings were rather shockingly rare, with God’s Own Country representing a firm shift away from what felt like a dramatic necessity that these types of stories end in tragedy. It’s more pronounced here, because it simply doesn’t feel like the kind of movie that’s going to end well. Josh O’Connor (The Crown‘s Prince Charles) and Alec Secăreanu play Yorkshire farmer Johnny and Romanian migrant worker Gheorghe. The initially tempestuous relationship that develops really does feel like it’s headed for tragedy (à la Brokeback Mountain), which makes the film’s unexpected turn even more joyous.
Where to stream: Hulu, Hoopla, Tubi, Kanopy, Sundance Now
This is one of Hollywood’s all-time team-ups, with director George Cukor at the helm of a Katherine Hepburn vehicle in which she’s pursued by both Cary Grant and James Stewart (and, of course, her fiancé played by John Howard—but he never really has a chance). It’s hard to know who to root for. In one regard, this was Hepburn’s own attempt to manage and soften her public image—it worked, but only by adding shades to the perception of her as a woman in command. Even when she’s back-footed by the men in her life, she’s still the whole show, bandying brilliant dialogue in a movie that veers effortlessly from sophisticated to screwball.
Where to stream: HBO Max
As the title suggests, the film and its characters are split between forces that seem to be in opposition. Monica and Quincy (Sanaa Lathan and Omar Epps) share hoop dreams from their first meeting as children, as well as an attraction that grows over the years. What keeps them apart is the game that they both love, and their dedication to divergent careers in sports. It’s a sports movie, in part, but one in which the central relationship is more important than any big game.
Where to stream: HBO Max
Cher and Nicolas Cage are such distinctive, idiosyncratic performers that it’s hard to imagine a romantic pairing between the two being something other than a cartoon. Instead, it’s one of the great film romances of all time, with engaged widow Loretta Castorini falling for her boyfriend’s younger brother. That love triangle is the film’s core, but the troubled marriage of Loretta’s parents, played by Olympia Dukakis and Vincent Gardenia is a significant piece of the film’s heart. While most rom-coms deal with young people and first love, Moonstruck suggests that that there’s room for romance even as life grows more complicated in middle age.
Where to stream: HBO Max
This middle chapter of director Richard Linklater’s trilogy might not have the most unambiguously happy ending of the three, but it’s the most memorable—one of the great romantic movie endings of all time, really. Reuniting nearly a decade after Before Sunrise, Jesse and Céline (Ethan Hawke and Julie Delpy) spend a day roaming Paris, at which point the two are forced to decide whether or not they’re willing to leave their present dissatisfying lives and relationships—a scene perfectly set to Nina Simone.
Where to stream: Tubi
Family is the biggest barrier to lasting love in Crazy Rich Asians, the rare example of a crowd-pleasing modern blockbuster that doesn’t involve car chases or capes. Constance Wu plays New York native Rachel Chu, an economics professor from a poor family who learns a little too late that her boyfriend Nick (Henry Golding) is the scion of one of Singapore’s wealthiest families. She’s not prepared for the level of conspicuous wealth, nor the snobbery she encounters when she travels with him for a family wedding—Rachel’s forced to decide if she can handle the pressure and judgement from Nick’s family, and if she even wants to. The happy ending here does not come easy for anyone.
Where to stream: HBO Max
The course of true love is unlikely to ever run smooth in a Guillermo del Toro movie, this story of the cleaner in a Cold War-era laboratory and the alluring fish-man with whom she develops a relationship. What follows is a dark fairy-tale romance with elements of horror that place it firmly in the classic Grimm tradition, but with an atypically happy outcome.
Where to stream: FX Now
Launching a thousand similar movies, most of which aren’t half as good, The Shop Around the Corner isn’t the first time that mistaken identity was central to a romance, nor the first time that mutual loathing turned (slowly) to love, but it’s never really been done with quite this level of style. Set at a shop in Budapest leading up to the Christmas season, Margaret Sullivan and James Stewart play competing co-workers who are always at each other’s throats, even as they develop a romantic relationship via their anonymous correspondence (neither knowing that they’re falling in love with their real-life nemesis). It’s cute, but never silly, and with all the frothy trademarks of director Ernst Lubitsch.
Where to stream: Digital rental
Nick Robinson is closeted high schooler Simon, who takes inspiration from the anonymous confession of a similarly closeted student in his school. Without knowing the true identity of ‘Blue,’ Simon strikes up an online friendship that turns into something more. Think The Shop Around the Corner, or You’ve Got Mail, with modern queer high schoolers.
Where to stream: Hulu, FX Now
The template for a million romantic comedies to come, It Happened One Night, despite appearing during the awkward early years of sound, and at the equally awkward end of the pre-Code era, remains unsurpassed in its charm and sexiness. Claudette Colbert and Clark Gable have terrific chemistry, and their relationship is one of near-equals—something that the coming Production Code would make nearly impossible for decades. In that way, it feels more modern than any number of much more recent movies. It’s also one of only three films to have won an Academy Award in every major category, and deservedly so.
Where to stream: Digital rental
Kena (Samantha Mugatsia) is the daughter of a Nairobi shopkeeper, helping her dad run the store while she prepares for nursing school. Ziki (Sheila Munyiva), on the other hand, mostly just hangs out with her friends and makes up dances. Their attraction is instantaneous, but they only meet because their fathers are running against each other for county assembly. Their love story, in a place where it’s illegal, threatens to complicate their family’s lives as much as their own, but the film still maintains a wonderfully bright, colorful, and musical, atmosphere, leading to a happy ending—even if that ending takes some time.
Where to stream: Fubo TV, Showtime Anytime, Hoopla, Kanopy
The modern classic, but very ‘90s, rom-com that retells The Taming of the Shrew in an American high school. And without some of the ugly misogyny. The film’s concluding exchange of a guitar for the title poem is delightfully memorable—there’s a reason the movie made stars of Julia Stiles and Heath Ledger.
Where to stream: Disney+
Aspiring artist Zach (Trevor Wright) has had to give up his dreams of art school, literally flipping burgers in order to support his disabled father and young nephew. The vibe being so very SoCal, Zach spends whatever free time he has painting and surfing, and starts hanging out with his best friend’s older brother, Shaun (Brad Rowe). It’s very nearly love at first sight, none of which makes Zach’s family problems go away—fortunately, Shaun’s not going anywhere and, by the end, the two have formed not just a relationship, but a family.
Where to stream: Here TV
Indian-American director Mira Nair leans into Bollywood tropes as often here as she subverts them, creating in the process, a glorious romantic and musical epic that, nevertheless, digs deep into cultural and generational divides brought about by the film’s traditionally elaborate Indian wedding. The movie has a large cast, and each character gets moments, but the core of the film is the upcoming arranged wedding between Aditi (Vasundhara Das) and Hemant (Parvin Dabas)—the problem being that Aditi is sleeping with her boss, and isn’t clear on how far she’s willing to go to please her family. Meanwhile, and complicating matters further, the quirky wedding planner has developed a crush on the family’s maid. It all builds toward an impressive, and very hard earned, happy ending. For most characters, anyway.
Where to stream: Digital rental
Smart and atmospheric, Love Jones didn’t do much at the box office back in 1997, but it’s developed bit of a cult following since. Larenz Tate plays Chicago poet Darius, who develops an instant attraction to photographer Nina Mosley (Nic Long). The film’s blues-y, bohemian setting in a world of middle-class Black artists and intellectuals was unusual in the 90s, and not all that much less so today, which lends the film a style and intelligence that stands apart. The essential question of any romantic drama (will they or won’t they?) is left to the very last moments here.
Where to stream: Digital rental
A little old-fashioned even in 1967, there’s so much chemistry among a cast headlined by Jane Fonda, Robert Redford, and Charles Boyer that it all works as a charming comedy (from a Neil Simon play) about a newlywed couple who very quickly come to believe that they’ve made a horrible mistake. Comedic and romantic complications ensue before a drunken climax on the roof of an apartment building leads to cheers from the supporting cast.
Where to stream: Prime Video
A photograph left behind by her deceased mother leads Mae (Issa Rae) to explore her own family’s past, while also bringing her into the orbit of a young journalist played by Lakeith Stanfield. Learning about her mother’s mistakes ultimately leads Mae to think twice before turning love away in this beautifully shot, multi-generational love story.
Where to stream: HBO Max, Max Go
Desert Hearts was an absolute breath of fresh air during an era in which queer characters were typically either serial killers or themselves dying of HIV/AIDS. Here, Vivian (Helen Shaver), an English professor in the middle of a divorce, meets Cay (Patricia Charbonneau), an uninhibited sculptor, at a ranch in Reno. Vivian struggles a bit with the unexpected lesbian attraction, but this romantic drama never veers toward tragedy, and is all the better for it. After years as a gem of queer cinema, the perception of the movie, of late, places it more in the category of outright classic.
Where to stream: HBO Max, The Criterion Channel
Based on the true story of the couple who took a challenge to their marriage all the way to the Supreme Court, Joel Edgerton and Ruth Negga play the couple who were arrested shortly after their marriage under Virginia’s anti-miscegenation laws. It’s a love story that, quite literally, changed the course of history.
Where to stream: Netflix
I’m not convinced that a lot of real-life romances begin as con-jobs, but it absolutely seems to work in the movies, and rarely better than in this Preston Sturges classic. Barbara Stanwyck is out to fleece shy, clueless beer heir Henry Fonda. Stanwyck is never anything less than completely shameless, and yet, somehow, you’re still cheering for her to get her man.
Where to stream: Digital rental
There are any number of great romantic moments in The Princess Bride, all leading to an ingenious fairytale ending. It’s the silly, swoon-worthy moment, though, when Westley (Cary Elwes) and Buttercup (Robin Wright) are reunited following a long absence that qualifies as the film’s most romantic, with Buttercup only realizing that she’s met her true love after she throws him down a hill. There’s only one thing to do when in the grip of one of film’s all-time great romances: throw yourself right down after him.
Where to stream: Disney+, Hulu